NEW YORK— Nicole Kidman says she was engaged to a mystery man in between breaking up with Tom Cruise and marrying Keith Urban. ” did’t really want a relatioship,” the 40-years-old actress says. ” I just wanted my kids to have me, and I did’t feel comfortable having some person in that small hubbubI get engaged and I get married— that’s my thing” she says, declining to reveal her former fiances indentity. ” I don’t want to date. I’ m interested in a very very deep connection.” Kidman and Cruise divorce in 2001 after 10 years of marriage. They have two adopted children, Isabella, 14 and Connor, 12; Cruise has a one-year-old daughter, Suri, with actress Katie Holmes. Kidman, who married country singer Urban in June 2006, says she has no regrets ehwn it comes to her marriage to cruise.“My agents told me, Once you become Mrs. Tom Cruise, you do know your career is going to die, ” says Kidman, who won an Oscar for her potrayal of Viginia Woolf in 2002’s “The Hours” By The Philippine Star